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ByZeus95
#15613 Je viens de lire ceci sur :

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/200 ... ungey.html


Je vous fait partager le matériel car il me semble tres pertinent. Tiens je vais aller au Hustler essayer ca :)


[quote] If you’re reading this, then you definitely have an interest in learning about the game. Game I believe is universal knowledge. It applies to a lot of things but in some situations you’re gonna have to specialize.

Different situations require different tactics. Every situation is different and in order to come up with a fool proof game plan, you should be aware of the psychology these women have in the environment that they are in.

Here are some scenarios that come to the top of my head

Girl in a club
Girl in your friend’s party
Girl walking down the street
Girl working (aka hired guns)

If I told you that there was a place where a lot of beautiful girls can be found, would you believe me?

Well it’s common knowledge that majority of the hired guns are hot. Girls working in Hooters, bartenders, restaurants, sales girl, and etc. Why is that? People gravitate towards beauty. I’m not saying that all hired guns are hot, but most of them are. This is some sort of adverstisement for most companies. Come on, who wouldn’t want to go back to a restaurant after having a beautiful waitress serve you food and drinks? A lot of you guys out there.

Wouldn’t it be cool if you knew how to pick these girls up? Well today is your lucky day cause I’ll be sharing with you guys my philosophies and tricks in this area of pick up.

The reality of hired guns

THEY GET HIT ON ALL OF THE TIME!
An average, beautiful, girl gets hit on approximately 5-15 times in a day. This includes guys that whistle, make comments, or just tries to start up a conversation with them. Either way, they get hit on a lot of times in a day. Now imagine how many times a hired gun gets hit on in a day? Probably twice or thrice as much as the average number of times she usually gets hit on in a day. Even a girl that rarely gets hit on will get hit on if she’s working. That’s the reality for most hired guns

MOST OF THE TIME THEY ARE BORED TO DEATH
Imagine doing the exact same thing for hours and hours in a day, several days a week, 4 weeks in a month, all year round. It gets pretty old. Most of them will be receptive to your advances if only you know how to engage them in conversation.

RULE # 1 DON’T CREEP THEM OUT
Drop the stupid pick up lines you’ve heard from movies. Don’t be that creepy guy that passes by her like a hundred time just to see her smile. Don’t make her feel weirded out because you’re standing a little bit too close to her. Don’t give her the long extended stare with matching uncontrollable creepy smile. Just act normal. Act as if she’s your 7 year old niece or something. Forget for a second that she’s this goddess to you ok? That’s the start

RULE # 2 AVOID TALKING ABOUT HER JOB AND EVERY OTHER THING THAT EVERYONE TALKS ABOUT WITH HER

Again, don’t be like everyone else. If you come in saying the same thing that everyone says then you’re just like everyone else. She won’t remember you

RULE # 3 STAND OUT WITH YOUR PERSONALITY

You have to stand out in some way. Be unique. Do things that most of the other people don’t do. Don’t be afraid to be unique.

Some examples are:

Waitress: Can I take your order please
Grungey10: Sure, I want you… (pause and wait for her to laugh, then say “ don’t get any ideas, I’m just ordering here, gosh!) again, I want you to tell me your favorite meal in this place. Like it has to be absolutely good.
Waitess: UHm, I like the beef brisket with yada yada yada
Grungey10: Really? That sounds good. What’s in it? Why do you like it?
Waitress: Goes on describing her favorite meal for 2 minutes….
Grungey10: That’s awesome. Sounds so good, I’ll make sure never to order that…

She’ll usually laugh here. Guess what? You just differentiated yourself from every other guy in that place. You were fun and funny. Now you can keep this up for a bit. The good thing about it is that she’ll be coming back over and over again.

You can use little comments like
(If she brings you your drink)
Grungey10: Wow, how sweet of you… You brought me my most favorite drink without even asking me… You’re awesome, I don’t know what I’d do without you….
Waitress: awwww that’s so cute
Grungey10: Actually, I do know what I’d do without you… Do you want to know what it is?
Waitress: What? Tell me…
Grungey10: ooopss… I just realized, food is here, have to eat… BYEEE…

At this point you’ll be getting under her skin already. She’ll think you’re the coolest guys she’s ever met.

RULE # 3 Get to know her a bit
Usually you won’t have enough time to run solid game on a hired gun so you either have to get her number after or come back and game her. If it’s a place that I visit often, I prefer to just come back multiple times and chat her up. It gives me more time to get to know her and likewise. So from here you can ask things like

- What do you do for fun? (Then tell her what you do for fun, why you like it, and how it makes you feel)
- I think you’re awesome, you definitely know how to let lose and have fun while you’re working, I like that… What makes you different from all the other waitresses here?
- If there was an airplane waiting outside just for you… It’s private, It’s nice, and It’s free. Where would you go? If you could go anywhere around the world and why? (Then tell her where you want to go and why)

RULE # 4 PACE HER REALITY AND GET HER NUMBER

- After a couple of minutes of talking to her I usually say: “ It’s funny that we met like this. I usually don’t get to talk to people I just met like this… Look around you, everyone always puts up a wall in front of them. It’s fake. It’s not who they are but what they want other people to perceive them. They end up not being themselves when they talk to people. Don’t get a big head now but you’re kind of different. This thing, right now… is awesome. You’re being genuine with me, I like that. I think you’d make an awesome friend. Just friends though cause I don’t know you well enough yet.”
- After this you just Invite her to some activity that you like doing and exchange numbers. It’s as simple as that.

Hope this helps somehow. I’m expecting you guys to be busy this month with day 2’s with hired guns, of course.

Any comments? Suggestions? Shoot me a quick line at my e-mail.

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-Grungey
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By Stéphane
#16180 [quote]You can use little comments like
(If she brings you your drink)
Grungey10: Wow, how sweet of you… You brought me my most favorite drink without even asking me… You’re awesome, I don’t know what I’d do without you….
Waitress: awwww that’s so cute
Grungey10: Actually, I do know what I’d do without you… Do you want to know what it is?
Waitress: What? Tell me…
Grungey10: ooopss… I just realized, food is here, have to eat… BYEEE…

At this point you’ll be getting under her skin already. She’ll think you’re the coolest guys she’s ever met.


- Soit c'est du second degré
- soit ce gars a 15 ans
- soit il est vraiment très nul

Rarement lu des conseils contenant aussi peu de finesse, de pensée et d'intelligence. Tant qu'à lire de l'anglais, autant lire la newsletter de Juggler, ça fait quand même moins ado pré-pubaire.
By Sinsé
#16236 Hmmm... N'étant vraiment pas compétent pour les Hired gun... je n'avais fait aucun commentaire après l'avoir lu par acquis de conscience, mais je n'en pensais pas moins. +1 avec Spike (étonnant, non ? :roll: )