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By Nico
#13551 [quote]
Changing Your Life = Changing Your Results With Women

1) Girls Will Not Make You Happy
Happiness is inside YOU, not in other people… or stuff that you need to buy. That is exactly society wants you to think; to look outside yourself to others or things you need to buy for your happiness. But this can only bring temporary happiness. Most girls out there are unhappy with their lives and they search for a man to make them happy. Actually they search for a happy man, to jump into his life, and enjoy his life. That is why you must focus on yourself first, before you bring someone else in your life.
Probably you won’t take me seriously when I say this, but what you are searching for in life (happiness) you won’t find in girls. (You will realize this after you sleep with lots of girls.)

2) If You Don’t Change You Will Stay Where You Are
This is simple. Same actions + same beliefs will always get the same results. If you are not happy with what you are getting from life, it’s time to change something. Try anything, but don’t stay where you are because it will lead you exactly to where you are now. Moving in a new direction will lead to new results.

3) What Would You Do If There Was No Fear?
Can you imagine how your life would be if there were absolutely no fear in it? Ask yourself, what would you do, how would you behave? Then start doing those things, little by little, to de-condition yourself from fear and reprogram yourself to do the things you really want to do. When you beat your fear, you will be FREE.

Every day do ONE thing that scares you.

4) The Sooner You Forget Your Old Girlfriend, The Sooner You Will Find a New One
Most guys, after they break up with a girl, they think about her for months. It’s normal after long term relationships to have emotions for that girl, but the sooner you forget about her, the sooner you will find a new girl. Be aware that an end is a new beginning. It’s smart to always have a backup girl in your life, so when you break up with one girl, you can jump to the other one. That is the reason why you should always stay social and go out, no matter how hot and perfect your girl is. There is always a chance you will break up. I suggest you maintain 2 relation longue’s and a back-up all the time to avoid being overexposed.

5) Don’t Wait For Girls To Come To You

You should always be pro-active. It’s a very bad idea to stay home and think, “It's just going to happen.” That’s how girls think, because they generally play a more passive role in society. It’s written in your genes that we are the stronger sex, the hunters, the ones that make thing happen. That’s how it’s been for million of years. Don’t betray your genes and your evolution.

6) If You Think You Can Get The Girl, You Can
It’s very important to stay focused positively and be sure that for every action you do, sooner or later you will be rewarded. Avoid negative thoughts, girls can feel it, and as soon they smell you are a “bad thinker” they will avoid you.

7) Go For Your Dreams
Never abandon your dreams. They will keep you motivated. There is nothing on this planet that can stop you from making your dreams come true, except you. There is nothing more important than your dreams. Life is too short to not make yourself happy. Stop being focused towards others, and start focusing on what you want!

8 ) Start Chasing Girls And ENJOY It
Soon you will realize that the chase is so much fun it is often times better than the actual sex. For the best players, that’s where the most fun is. In the long run, we get bored with one girl pretty quickly and our genes motivate us to a find a new girl, to spread our semen whereas girls are programmed to find that 'special one' and raise kids with him. So enjoy the chase, enjoy going out, and have fun doing it. It’s a natural instinct for us. Cultivate it.

BadBoy

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L'essentiel a déja été souligné. Mais on peut noter en plus que le point 2 est très simple et tellement vrai, pourtant si peu de gens s'en rendent compte. Par contre, le conseil à la fin du point 4 (avoir en même temps 2 relation longue et une solution de secours), comme Badboy le dit, c'est juste une suggestion... :)
By topachou
#13726 [quote="Spike"]Un être abouti est toujours gentil. La méchanceté et l'air de petit con supérieur sont toujours le signe que quelquechose n'est fini (et qu'on est loin du but).

Selon ta définition, penses-tu être abouti ? Ou au moins proche de l'aboutissement ?

C'est une question sans ironie aucune. Je tiens juste à connaitre le regard (j'espère honnête) que tu portes sur toi-même.
By Eikichi
#13792 [quote="topachou"][quote="Spike"]Un être abouti est toujours gentil. La méchanceté et l'air de petit con supérieur sont toujours le signe que quelquechose n'est fini (et qu'on est loin du but).

Selon ta définition, penses-tu être abouti ? Ou au moins proche de l'aboutissement ?

C'est une question sans ironie aucune. Je tiens juste à connaitre le regard (j'espère honnête) que tu portes sur toi-même.

Yop, je pense qu'on est jamais abouti pour ma part...

On est dans un état plus ou moins proche de la plénitude, mais on ne l'atteint jamais...

En tout cas, ça doit être sacrément chiant d'être "complet", au final tu deviens passif ou tu répetes toujours les mêmes actions, puisqu'il n'y a plus d'évolution possible.

PS: je fume une clope puis je vais sur le forum présentation ^^